The so-called “mail order bride” industry, which primarily is focused on Ukraine, and secondly Russia, has been changing in recent years. The days of American guys rolling up in any Russian or Ukrainian city, flashing a US passport and being swamped in model-quality girls are long gone. This is 2011/12, not 1991. Women are not desperate to leave any more.
Men seeking a Russian or Ukrainian wife need to understand the dynamics of the society they delve into. Men fixated on the idea of importing a model-quality wife, twenty-five years younger than themselves are likely heading for disappointment.… Click here to continue reading this article
In some cases worse. That is when a man marries the wrong woman, or sometimes when a guy is clueless. The reasons can vary; some people just get it wrong. Read this tale and see what you think:
I feel the need to tell my story. It’s the story of my marriage to a Russian lady. A marriage I thought was perfect which has descended into a futile exercise of tolerance on my part of a woman so pig headed, manipulative and selfish I can’t believe.
It’s a bit of a read but in order to get an idea of from where we started to where we are today I thought it best to include our full history.
Mail Order Brides – It’s a term you hear referred to quite often, yet so many men go into the search for a mail order bride with an inaccurate idea of the landscape they are entering. Do mail order brides actually exist? Let’s examine the landscape a little.
Ten years ago, almost every man seeking a Russian bride would have been relatively wealthy in his own country; he had to be in order to manage the process as it stood then. He would therefore, in all likelihood have been older than the average man seeking to marry in his own country and certainly older than the women he was meeting.… Click here to continue reading this article